Meet Sammy Thompson
Sitting in the audience at the graduation ceremony of a
substance abuse after care treatment program, I was proud to witness
what some would describe as a miracle. There was Sammy, the first Cornerstone
Community resident, with tears in his eyes receiving his diploma and
a perfect attendance award.
As I sat there in
the ceremony, I could not help but think back on Sammy’s
history. He lost his father at the age of 13 and felt it his duty as
the oldest to “step up” and be the “man” of the
house and help support his younger siblings. The way he chose to do that – the
easiest way in his neighborhood – was on the street selling drugs.
It was that lifestyle that eventually resulted in 29 years of drug addiction,
a number of years in prison, homelessness and the HIV/AIDS virus. He
arrived at Joseph's House (our parent organization) a few years ago weighing
about 70 pounds (he has now added about 100 to that). After a large dose
of unconditional love and excellent medical care, Sammy regained his
health and was able to move out of Joseph's House.
Life after Joseph’s House was not easy for Sammy. Like many former
residents of Josephs House, he faced a bitter sweet reality when he got
well enough to leave. Even though his health had improved and he was
able to walk out of the house, his options for what to do next were up
in the air. “I went through a lot of changes after I left Joseph’s
House,” he said. “Experiencing life again was hard - it was
the outside world. I was a former drug addict and drug dealer.” Sammy
would characterize his life the first two years after he left Joseph's
House as full of uncertainty.
Without continued
support and a safe, caring place to live, habits and lifestyles die
hard. But our friends at Joseph’s House kept up
with him as much as they could. It was the one place where he knew he
would always be loved and accepted. So he kept coming back to visit in
some of his worst times. It was during one of those visits that I met
Sammy and spent the day with him listening and helping him move from
a tiny $500/month room in a dilapidated, drug-infested hell-hole.
From that
point we were there to help him through a suicide attempt, get him
into treatment twice and being there after he left both times
to go back to the drug life. We stood beside him through a drug charge
and many difficult times and emotions. But because we stayed with him,
we saw him reconcile with his 22-year old daughter and meet his 2 month
old son. We celebrated his graduation from an aftercare program. We are
about ready to celebrate one year clean and sober with him. It has been
a delight to watch his heart change. Then recently to see him dressed
in a tuxedo and standing as a groomsman in the wedding of one of our
live-in staff members was beyond delight. Leon says that the Cornerstone
community saved his life.
In late 2007, Sammy was diagnosed with lung cancer. He died on January
1, 2008. We were blessed to have him as a friend. His memory
still inspires
us in our community life.